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Once you register, you'll receive a welcome email with the session Zoom link. In addition, one day after the session, you'll receive a follow-up email with access to the replay page. This page includes the recorded video, handouts, and all additional resources mentioned by Gavin and Joy in the session. Whether you miss the live gathering or want to review the material, you're welcome to visit the replay page anytime to deeper your learning.

Details for the Event

  • Date: Monday, May 11th, 2026
  • Time: 5:00 -7:00 pm PT / 8:00 - 10:00 pm ET
  • Location: Online Zoom 

Conscious Communication Essentials: The Language of Undefended Love

In this session, we explore the skills of undefended love that help us move from defensive, reactive patterns into honest, openhearted connections. You’ll learn how curiosity, deep listening, and staying present with “two realities” can transform even difficult conversations into moments of clarity and closeness. 

We’ll look at common defense patterns, how they show up in your communication, and how to shift into the undefended state that creates safety, understanding, and forward movement. We’ll also share practical tools and frameworks, repair practices, and ways to navigate conflict and decision-making with more confidence and compassion. Teaching from our lived experience, we’ll openly share mistakes we’ve made, embarrassing moments, and how good it feels to make up! 

We’ll explore:

  • How to listen and stay curious so both people feel seen, understood, and respected
  • The difference between defended love and undefended love—and how to shift patterns in real time
  • Working with “two realities” to reduce conflict and honor each partner’s truth
  • Repair skills, conflict navigation, and a step-by-step conscious communication process you can use right away
  • Multidensional, extra sensory, amd soul-level communication